Co-authored-by: renovate[bot] <29139614+renovate[bot]@users.noreply.github.com>

* refuse pass relative path to remote daemon

* add local ip checker in dora start

* delete some additional packages on CI to make enough space available

* add coodinator_is_remote argument

Small logging improvements

chore(deps): update dependencies

Update Pyo3 bounds

Fix some typos and add automatic typos check to CI

The deprecation warning states:

> code not using the `GIL Refs` API can safely remove the use of `Py::new_pool`

All GIL Refs usage have been removed, so this should be fine.

The argument was removed.
See: https://github.com/apache/arrow-rs/pull/5485

Arrow needs to be upgraded alongside pyo3 because they both link to python.

NOTE: Arrow marked `ffi::from_ffi` unsafe.
https://github.com/apache/arrow-rs/pull/5080

Improve coordinator port config

chore(deps): update dependencies

Renovate: group all dependency updates in single PR

The `dora up` command always starts a coordinator and daemon in local mode using the default config. For non-standard config and for remote setups, users need to use `dora coordinator` and `dora daemon` directly.

Provide help messages for CLI

This way, the default address is shown as part of the `--help` output.

Make dora cli connect to remote coordinator

Make non-UTF8 stdout/stderr from nodes non-fatal

Configure Renovate

Allow top-level fields in node declaration

Signed-off-by: Gege-Wang <2891067867@qq.com>

fix: localhost to control_socket_addr()

Log a warning instead and do a lossy conversion to String. This ensures that `stdout`/`stderr` stay open, which avoids a `SIGPIPE` exit of the node on the next println.

Dependabot always times out, probably because we have too many dependencies in this repo.