Robin-hood-hashing (https://github.com/martinus/robin-hood-hashing)
is considered faster then std::unordered_map/set,
so we use it to improve mindspore performance.

1. robin_hood head file in `third_party/robin_hood/include`;
2. In `utils/hash_map.h` and `utils/hash_set.h`, we define:
 - mindspore::HashMap as an alias of robin_hood::unordered_map;
 - mindspore::HashSet as an alias of robin_hood::unordered_set;
3. Replace:
 - `#include <unordered_map>` --> `#include "utils/hash_map.h"`;
 - `#include <unordered_set>` --> `#include "utils/hash_set.h"`;
 - `std::unordered_map` --> `mindspore::HashMap`;
 - `std::unordered_set` --> `mindspore::HashSet`;
 - `map.insert(std::pair(key, value))` --> `map.emplace(key, value)`;
 - `[] (const std::pair<K, V> &p) {..} ` --> `[] (const auto &p) {..} `;
4. Fix issues found by switch to robin_hood:
 - AnfNodeConfig hash and equal;
 - Fix a bug in `Slice::operator==()`;
 - Fix a bug in `CNode::HasPrimalAttr()`;
 - Fix map.erase() usage bugs: `map.erase(iter++)` --> `iter = map.erase(iter)`;
 - Fix some iterator invalidated problem;
5. Some std::unordered_map/set can not replace by robin_hood:
 - As parameter of functions that exposed to python by pybind11;
 - Use bad hash that cause robin_hood::map over_flow, such as AbstractBasePtrListHasher;
6. Update cpp unit tests;
7. Add build option '-F' to enable robin_hood, default on.

Add support for no pipeline accugradient

Add delay tag for fusion op

Optimizer the visite order

add mirror for mini step control

Move the group to attributes

Add gradient_shard control for the mini step

Fix code stype

Fix ut description

Add interface

- Fix the key generating.
- Distinguish the executors.

This reverts commit b077aa1cab.

Revert "[feat] [assistant] [I3T96X] add new Dataset operator LibriSpeechDataset"

This reverts commit 4e6f7dc97d.

delete pass_registry_test.cc

comment  hiai_nlu_model_multi.pb related  line

The basic idea is: exploits data dependency to control the execution order
of side-effect operations, and keep the semantics of ANF unchanged.

The ControlDepend primitive is removed and there are two primitives added:

1. UpdateState:
```
  a = Assign(para, value)
```
became:
```
  a = Assign(para, value, u)
  u = UpdateState(u, a)
```

2. Load:
```
  x = Add(para, value)
```
became:
```
  p = Load(para, u)
  x = Add(p, value)
  u = UpdateState(u, p)
```

From: @zhangbuxue
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