Merge pull request !25410 from yuchaojie/ir_fusion3

the function IsOneOfPrimitive and IsOneOfPrimitiveCNode is useful,
we can move them into anf.cc

Merge pull request !24241 from jjfeing/master

Merge pull request !23155 from yuchaojie/code-clean

This reverts commit b09d411dc4.

add AlltoAll and NeighborExchange as interface

Merge pull request !21045 from yao_yf/pangu_train_and_eval

Merge pull request !21395 from zhoufeng/xiu-ba-ge

Signed-off-by: zhoufeng <zhoufeng54@huawei.com>

From: @alouhahahahaha
Reviewed-by: @zhoufeng54,@yuchaojie
Signed-off-by: @yuchaojie

From: @alouhahahahaha
Reviewed-by: @zhoufeng54,@kisnwang
Signed-off-by: @kisnwang

From: @hwjiaorui
Reviewed-by: @jjfeing,@zhoufeng54
Signed-off-by: @zhoufeng54

Signed-off-by: zhoufeng <zhoufeng54@huawei.com>

From: @alouhahahahaha
Reviewed-by: @jjfeing
Signed-off-by: @jjfeing

The basic idea is: exploits data dependency to control the execution order
of side-effect operations, and keep the semantics of ANF unchanged.

The ControlDepend primitive is removed and there are two primitives added:

1. UpdateState:
```
  a = Assign(para, value)
```
became:
```
  a = Assign(para, value, u)
  u = UpdateState(u, a)
```

2. Load:
```
  x = Add(para, value)
```
became:
```
  p = Load(para, u)
  x = Add(p, value)
  u = UpdateState(u, p)
```