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1: reduce python whl package size
2: unify api link logic on all OS
3: add option: MGE_WINDOWS_BUILD_WITH_STATIC_CRT
    --- default OFF
    --- if build CRT(vc runtime) with STATIC with megengine.dll
        some CRT api will crash, for example, flush, so if you
        build with static megengine, and do not want to install CRT
        you can set MGE_WINDOWS_BUILD_WITH_STATIC_CRT TRUE
    --- how to install CRT:
        https://docs.microsoft.com/en-us/cpp/windows/latest-supported-vc-redist?view=msvc-160
        install VC_redist.x64.exe
4: rename megengine_export to megengine_shared(only export needed symbols ),
   caused by runtime symbols conflict with pytorch

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Removed the `access()` call before `dlopen()`.
It was copy-pasted from the opencl-stub, does not make sense here, and
prevents `dlopen()` from loading `libcuda.so` from non-default path.

Updated the name of the library providing CUDA Driver API on different
platforms, these are harvested from the following file in a CUDA
install:
samples/6_Advanced/matrixMulDynlinkJIT/cuda_drvapi_dynlink.c
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