Also, upgrade to CMake 3.13.
The commit also contains significant refactors, as otherwise it is not
possible to properly export target `megengine` to
MegEngine-targets.cmake:
1. Optionally use system provided Flatbuffers.
2. Optionally use system provided MKL-DNN (Tested with Debian).
3. Refactor megbrain and megdnn targets into object libraries.
4. Set different path in BUILD_INTERFACE and INSTALL_INTERFACE of
various target_include_directories.
5. Specify PUBLIC/PRIVATE on various target_link_libraries.
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Megvii Engine Team