ref https://gitlab.freedesktop.org/mesa/mesa/-/issues/10847

* vulkan-driver-loader.md
* static vulkan on apple

* enable VK_KHR_cooperative_matrix
* add khr cm shader
* update glslang
* print matrix info

* fix vulkan validation error, prefer VK_KHR_buffer_device_address over VK_EXT_buffer_device_address

* enable validation extension features

* enable VK_KHR_portability_subset extension if device support it

Co-authored-by: w1ndseeker <w1ndseeker@users.noreply.github.com>

* query and enable cooperative matrix

* fix build with old vulkan sdk

* implement cooperative matrix optimization

* add nvidia-t4 coverage

* adjust test option for more coverage

* enable ios arm64e

* fix build with old vulkan sdk

* link vulkan loader on macos, fix ios moltenvk library path

* there is no moltenvk arm64e library atm, link moltenvk directly for macos-arm64